Organizations tend to take on the personalities of their leaders. I fought this one, I really did. I tried to find examples in my organization where this wasn’t true. I failed, utterly. There are considerations to make. In the case of my group, after about 12 months they began to be a little more relaxed, a little more willing to change, and a little less likely to make excuses when things didn’t go well (in other words, more like me). Unfortunately, they also bitched a lot more about upper management, they were less patient with their operations counterparts, and they were too easy on the mechanics (in other words, too much like me). Of course their personalities did not fundamentally change. I’m asserting that they all moved just a tad (a noticeable tad, mind you) closer to me. I admit to changing as well. I am definitely less laid back than I was when I took this job. Though I’ve had more bosses than Bill Simmons...
Middle management is a purgatory between regular working stiffs on one side and the exalted upper management gods on the other. This is a faux guidebook for those of us stuck in the middle. Read carefully. Don't be the pointy-haired boss...